Is Your Marriage Worth Saving?
These are important questions for a caring and thoughtful person – a person who wants the best for everyone. You know that divorce is expensive in so many ways. You also know a dead marriage takes a catastrophic emotional toll. And, the green grass out there can quickly turn to a dying brown.
If these questions naw at you or consume your waking moments, know you are not alone.
I’ve worked with thousands as a Marriage and Family Therapist in private practice and later online. The thoughtful caring person often sits on the fence, fearful of leaving and fearful of staying. You know so much is at stake.
I offer you my best resources, complied and used effectively by many over the past 3 decades, in an online course, “Is It Worth It?”
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The practical and timely information will help you:
Open your mind to a new world that contains a love that is Natural and Easy.
Ferret out the right kind of knowledge and information. (I know Family Systems.)
Give yourself time to decide. Yes, you want relief from the tension, stress and unknown. But, you also want a sold foundation on which to base your decision. Take a month to dig into the online course, “Is It Worth It?” and see where it takes you.
In the 90s, while in my private practice, I saw a new client at 5:00 in the afternoon. In tears she stated she wanted to save her marriage.
The next day her picture was on the front page of the local newspaper. Her husband stabbed her in the bath tub not more than 8 hours after I met her.
To say I was shaken is an understatement. And, it forever impacted my concern for the level of danger in a relationship.
If there is any shred of you that thinks you might be in danger, go through the extensive lessons on the level of danger in a relationship I’ve included in “Is It Worth It?” Do it NOW!!
In the introductory video you will learn:
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Start now evaluating your situation. Fill out the checklist. Note which statement (or the top 2) that grab you the most. Spend the next 24 hours focusing on that statement. Notice what thoughts, images, memories emerge. You might begin to explore a critical issue which will offer direction.
I want you to know that your course helped me far more than any of the others because it was straight forward, real and doable. I am constantly going back to refresh myself with things to think about. It’s a great resource to see just how far I’ve come. I am an educated professional and was skeptical about online resources. But your advice is wise, anticipates my questions and is reassuring.
Thank you for being a voice of confidence, assurance, and guidance in this quagmire. At last somebody who was giving practical advice, somebody who called ‘a spade, a spade’, somebody who, above all, never gave up on me and understood my dilemma and my hesitance to order and pay for courses over the Internet.
So, Bob, I just wanted to drop in and say… I’m making it. Life isn’t perfect, I wonder sometimes if I’ll love again and be able to have a relationship and trust again but that’s in the future. For now my health and my children and my life are my focus and that serenity. And to thank you for your kind, wise words.
Thank you so much. Your materials have been my saviour. I have rediscovered myself and found my inner strength and will just be me, the one i used to be that somewhere along the line got lost.
Kind regards
Debra
I have finally found peace with the situation, and I am leaving my sociopath/narcissist husband for a better life. Thank you for a very informative Lessons Courses, Emails,—all of which have been invaluable in my discovery and in moving on with my life. I just wanted to say that your marriage course and coaching were absolute lifesavers when I was going through the first stages of finding out and living with my Husband’s affairs, thank you, things are still tough but we are getting there, he broke off the affair (s!) and came home. We’re working on it!!!
thanks again.
Hannah
Here are the Top Eight Key Points in deciding “Is It Worth It?”
(I’m giving you a head start!)
You will know that your marriage, your relationship, your love and the demands placed on that relationship is always changing and adjusting.
You will view your marriage as a work in progress which eliminates some of the pressure, illusions and betters prepares you to face what must be faced.
You will have the capacity to stand back and see the larger picture of your marriage or relationship that enables:
You to identify where you are now in this process of being married. Such knowledge results in less fear and confusion.
You not to be surprised when your marriage births a crisis.
Your panic level to diminish.
You to have a sense of control and personal power.
You to no longer feel like a leaf blowing in the wind.
You to stave off thinking you are unlovable.
You to move off center and experience that “stuck” feeling less often and will less intensity.
You to know there are answers.
You to validate your uneasy feelings and inklings.
You to feel normal
Thanks again a bit of a Lifesaver, aren’t you
Jasmine
I was in a state of rage and some of the words calmed me and gave me direction.
Miki
Bob, Your information has been invaluable in my effort to find my way out of a 2 1/2 year mess…
Jim
Your Modules kept me from going out of my mind. Thank you
Suzane