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How to Move from “Affair Thinking” (catastrophic) to “Recovery Thinking.”
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Dear Friend,
I feel your pain.
I remember a butt kicking day back in the 90s.
I discovered my wife’s affair and remember tying my running shoes, running mindlessly through the sand dunes until I literally collapsed from exhaustion and emotional pain.
That day was a linchpin moment in my life.
Every day since has been devoted to helping others (and myself) to genuinely, legitimately and permanently recover from infidelity.
More than recovery; actually, it’s creating a new life, a new reality and a new relationships.
You Will Stack Love
Post D-Day is dramatically different than Pre D-Day
In 6-12 months I want you to experience what I call “Love Stacking” – building one love experience upon another.
It’s what you want, we all want – to love and be loved, understood, affirmed, valued and to return that in kind.
IMPORTANT: To work toward Love Stacking you MUST first address the infidelity.
Please know that Love Stacking is not related to “romantic love,” which served it’s purpose way back when. You can’t go back, nor do you want to. Love is different this time - deeper, richer, lighter, no drama.
You Must Understand the TRUE
Nature of Infidelity
You must let go of the myths and misconceptions which keep you locked in your anger, pain, fear, despair and hopelessness.
Once you let go (and I will show you how) the pain melts and you experience an inner strength and knowing that enables you to address your cheating spouse in ways that honor you, him and offers a better chance of resolution.
I’m offering on this page a series of audios which address the basic questions about infidelity.
Out With the Old
Your old assumptions about infidelity (which contribute to your pain and despair) will be reframed.
You will begin to think radically different about infidelity. The old stereotypes (affairs are about love or a bad marriage) will fall away; clarity and relief will flood through you.
You will breath easier; the tension will fade and an emerging confidence and calm will become your companions.
Throw Out the Anchor
I’m not going to kid you.
There will be ok days, maybe even a good one thrown in every so often, but there will also be terribly terrible days.
That’s the process.
An anchor point, something to hang onto will be critical during the down days.
I’m offering these audios now, at the beginning of your recovery since they do provide an anchor point.
Download them onto your favorite device.
Walk, drive, jog, sit in your favorite chair, lay on your bed with the earbuds sending you messages that create your new reality.
Use the audios to move ahead, to continue the recovery momentum, to develop your plan and be a constant reminder that “this too shall pass.”
Take my voice with you.
Questions? Of Course!
Get the Answers
The discovery of infidelity leads to questions – lots of them! Common questions arise, but there are other questions you should ask to hasten the recovery process.
Download to your device and listen when walking, driving, etc. Listen. Learn. Begin your recovery.
Listen to the answers on the “Top 10 Common Questions People Ask about Infidelity” and the “Top 10 Questions People Should Ask about Infidelity.”
Top 10 Common Questions People ask about Infidelity
How Do I Get Rid Of The Pain?
How long does the pain last?
Is it ok to have sex?
What if she or he continues to see OP?
Will I ever trust again?
Can I stop the affair?
Do I confront the Other Person?
How do I confront my spouse about the affair?
How do I get him/her to talk?
How do I get rid of the images?
Top 10 Qustions People Should Ask about infidelity
What patterns do I want to break free from?
What is my strategy for this type of affair?
What gets triggered in me?
What do I think about in my worst moments?
What am I willing to tolerate?
How do I protect myself?
Do I really want to be married to him/her?
What type of affair is it?
How do I get stupport?
What am I learning about self/others?
Listen to this Interview as Dr. Huizenga responds to Crucial Infidelity Questions
Take a front row seat and listen to this extensive interview where Dr. Huizenga shares his wisdom regarding infidelity on a myriad of questions.
- Is it a bigger problem when an affair happens early in a committed relationship or marriage compared to an affair that happens in a fairly longer marriage?
- List of do’s and don’ts for a betrayed spouse.
- How does the betrayed spouse deal with an angry cheater?
- Should I force a decision?
- Why won’t the wayward spouse work on the marriage after the affair?
- Why is the need to know details sometimes powerful?
- Should the betrayed spouse expose the affair?
- What barriers does the cheating spouse have in healing the mar-riage after the affair?
- Once a cheater, always a cheater?
- How to rebuild the trust, especially when the other person contin-ues to be coworker of the wayward spouse?
- How does one deal with flashbacks and nightmares?
- What are the dynamics of forgiveness?
- and more.
This is the one year anniversary of my life turning upside down due to an affair. You helped me to move beyond the hurt and to focus more clearly as I made some very hard decisions regarding my wife's infidelity. The guidance you provided was invaluable, both for understanding the affair and myself. Thank you.
Tim R
Thank you, I feel like I have an answer now and help. Thank you again. Bless you for helping so many people. I wish I had found your site a year ago and I might not be in this mess. Sincerely,
Debra
Thank you so much. Your materials have been my saviour. I have rediscovered myself and found my inner strength and will just be me, the one i used to be that somewhere along the line got lost.Kind regards
Debra
I have finally found peace with the situation, and I am leaving my sociopath/narcissist husband for a better life. Thank you for a very informative Lessons Courses, audios, Emails,—all of which have been invaluable in my discovery and in moving on with my life.
I just wanted to say that your resources and coaching were absolute lifesavers when I was going through the first stages of finding out and living with my Husband's affairs, thank you, things are still tough but we are getting there, he broke off the affair (s!) and came home . We're working on it!!! thanks again
Hannah
Thanks. Just want to let you know I’ve benefitted from your materials. I’m 22 months past Dday. We are doing a lot better . We’ll be married 30years this year and hope to make it another 30. Thank you again.again
Trudy
Your courses and ebooks have not only saved my marriage, but also my life. My pain is still not over, as I discovered that my wife of 20 years has been having long term affairs on the side for 17 of these years, including the period over which we were having children. I read your books and lessons over and over, and they helped tremendously to understand her problems as well as mine. It’s taken me a year and half to get myself together, but my new business is thriving and we are still together. And perhaps for the first time we are ‘really’ together.
Guaranteed
If you are not satisfied with the audios, drop me an email and I will refund your money, no questions asked.
You have absolutely nothing to lose.
